Parshas Toldos
| Noach | Lech Lecha | Vayaira | Chayai Sara | Toldos | |
| Vayaitzai | Vayishlach | Vayaishev | Mikaitz | Vayigash | Vayechi |
| The Dynamics
of Chesed and Gevurah |
| The commentators grapple with the apparent redundancy in the first pasuk of the Parsha. “These are the chronicles of Yitzchak, son of Avraham, Avraham begot Yitzchak.” (See Rashi for the classic answer.) The Ba’al Shem Tov zy”a reveals an original explanation. The structure of the pasuk is one of question and answer. It is well known that Avraham’s primary characteristic was chesed, i.e. kindness. Avraham bestowed boundless and indiscriminant love and kindness on others, whether they deserved it or not. Yitzchak, on the other hand, possessed the characteristic of gevurah, i.e. restraint, fear, and awe. Yitzchak’s fear of G-d and transgression dominated him, causing him to give only in a controlled and limited way. The question therefore is: How is it possible that Yitzchak (gevurah) was the son of Avraham (chesed)? The answer is, “Avraham begot Yitzchak.” In order for there to be continuous chesed and giving, there must be recipients, who are the beneficiaries of kindness. The restraint of gevurah creates shortages and deficiencies which the midah of chesed is then able to remedy. Avraham needed to introduce the gevurah of Yitzchak in order to perpetuate his characteristic of chesed!!
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And Yitzchak Loved Eisav |
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Our patriarch, Avraham, was the personification of loving-kindness. His mission in life was "Asai Tov" - to perform acts of kindness, thus demonstrating through "Imitatio Deo" (emulating G-d), that the Almighty is a G-d of love. Our patriarch, Yitzchak, was the personification of justice. His mission in life was "Sur Merah" - to vanquish evil, thus demonstrating that the Almighty is also a G-d of justice. Yaakov and Eisav were originally destined to emulate both Avraham and Yitzchak, balancing each other in a harmonious and complementary relationship, referred to as Tiferes in Kabbalistic writings. Yaakov was to pursue a life of accentuating and developing Tov i.e. goodness and kindness. Eisav was to emulate his father, Yitzchak's, proclivity for battling evil and eradicating its existence from the world. Let us now "rewind" to the embryonic stages of Yaakov and Eisav. When Rivka passed by a pagan house of worship, Eisav's fetal movement was not indicative of a desire to serve the idolatry but rather, a reflection of his mission to battle evil and paganism. After Eisav's Bar-Mitzvah, his first act of adulthood was to visit houses of idolatry, in the hope of destroying them and shutting them down. This is why Yitzchak had such an intense love for Eisav, because he reflected Yitzchak's personality of "Sur Merah" - the perpetual struggle against evil. As the Zohar teaches, "Every kind loves its own". Yitzchak wanted Eisav to receive the brachos because he knew the great challenges in store for a warrior against evil. He wanted Eisav to have Divine assistance in his arduous life's mission. Unfortunately, Eisav's constant exposure to evil, slowly withered away his resolve, and instead of conquering evil, he was eventually consumed by it. We now understand the intention of the first Rashi of the parsha in telling us that Yaakov and Eisav were the offspring of Yitzchak. Don't entertain the thought, says Rashi, that Eisav's evil personality had its roots in the decadent Lavan and Besuel, from his mother's side. Eisav was indeed the progeny of Yitzchak, but corrupted the personality of "Sur Merah", by succumbing to its temptation. This is Yaakov's intention when he proclaims to his father, "I am Eisav, your first-born" (27,19), for once the brachos were given to Yaakov, he was "invested" with his brother Eisav's mandate of battling evil. Yaakov is now the sole embodiment of both "Asai Tov" and "Sur Merah" and now single-handedly represents "Tiferes". We now can understand how Yaakov could present himself to Lavan as cunning and deceitful. After inheriting Eisav's mandate, he was also granted the skills to fight evil - the clever and cunning talents of Eisav. This is why Yaakov received the additional appellation, Yisroel, from the root "Sarisa" - "You have contended" (32, 38). Yisroel represented his newly acquired prowess and ability to battle evil with cunning and guile. With the advent of Moshiach, Eisav will repent and assume his original role as his brother's symbiotic partner, freeing Yaakov to pursue his mandate of "Asai Tov" without distraction. May we merit to enjoy this utopian paradise, speedily in our days. |
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You can't cry over spilled
blood |
The Torah
describes the anecdote which caused Esav to be referred to as "Edom",
the red one. Upon returning from a day of hunting and murder, Esav chanced
upon Yaakov who was cooking a dish of red lentils. On this day, Avraham
passed away and Yaakov was preparing the traditional mourner's meal
for his father. Esav was so famished from the hunt, that he was even
willing to negotiate his birthright to secure the right to eat the red
lentils. Yaakov subsequently poured the lentils down Esav's mouth and
therefore Esav was called "Edom". There is an obvious difficulty
here. The Torah tells us that when Esav was born he had a ruddy complexion.
Why then did they not call him "Edom" immediately upon birth?
Another question is raised about the name Esav. The Midrash tells us
that the name "Esav" is beautiful as it represents deed and
action, from the Hebrew root, "Oseh". Why then was Esav given
such a praiseworthy name? The answer lies in what the Gemarah teaches
(Shabbos 156a), "An individual that is born under the constellation
of the bull will be a spiller of blood. Rav Ashi commented 'either a
physician or a murderer, a Shochet or a Mohel'". The Gemarah gives
us a clear, understanding concerning the controversy of what determines
our personality makeup: nature or nuture? The nature of a person is
fixed and immutable and one who is born a spiller of blood can never
change that disposition. However, one can and must nurture and guide
his nature positively and constructively. This is what Rav Ashi adds,
that it is the individual that determines if he will express his desire
to spill blood positively, as a physician or Mohel, or negatively, as
a thief and murderer. This sheds
light on why Esav was given a name that reflects deed and action. The
prophet Eliyahu tells us in the Sefer Tana D'vai Eliyahu. "Eliyahu
testified that no matter who you are; man, woman, gentile, or lowly
slave, commensurate to your good deeds does the Holy Spirit rest upon
you." Yes, even you, Esav, can be a Tzaddik, just choose to act
and perform deeds of righteousness. Then, even the 'spiller of blood'
can channel his nature positively and beneficially. May the Holy Spirit
rest upon all of us! |
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